Middle School

Important Links

Monthly CYF Newsletter
Google Cal: Children, Youth & Family (subscribe to it!)
8th Grade Core Course Calendar 2022-23
6th & 7th Grade Confirmation Calendar 2022-23
Ministry Purpose, Plan & Practice

Click here for the weather and building closure policy.

Registration (open thru September 14)

Please click on your current grade level to register for the 2022 – 2023 program year. Please register by September 14.

6th grade will meet on Wednesday from 6:00 – 7:00pm in Incarnation Hall

Register here

7th grade will meet on Wednesday from 6:00 – 7:00pm in Incarnation Hall

Register here

8th grade will meet on Wednesday from 6:00 – 7:00pm (location tbd)

Register here

Two options (read both carefully) for 9th grade:

1) Fast-Track Intensive
2) Year-long


Registration Information
All registrations are done through Realm, our Church Management Database. Follow the steps below to register for MSM.

Setting up your account: Everyone who is already a part of Incarnation has a unique profile that contains your information. If you have already activated your account, please skip to the instructions about accessing your account. If you are a guest of Incarnation, you will follow the link to create and activate your account. To activate or create your account go to: www.onrealm.org/IncarnationLuth/Register

Accessing your account: After you have completed the set-up process above, you are now able to access Realm by going to www.onrealm.org/IncarnationLuth.

Launching A New Ministry Model

Dear middle school families, last fall we launched a new middle school ministry model. Based on your feedback in the survey and ongoing individual conversations, we realized there was a lot to learn as we plan next steps together…

Read the whole letter here


  • 12/7 – First Wednesday pizza party 5pm and confirmation 6pm
  • 12/14- Joe Davis not so silent night 6pm Incarnation Hall
  • 12/21- Christmas caroling 6pm
  • 12/28- Christmas brake
Events may need to change, given the current covid pandemic. We remain committed to your health and safety.

Wednesday Programming (a “typical” night)

  • 5:00pm — community meal (pizza on the 1st Wed of the month) and open gym in Incarnation Hall
  • 6:00 – 7:00pm — age-specific fun, fellowship and learning
  • Done and on your way home by 7:05p

Middle School Meets

MSM 6 – 8 fellowship events are for all youth in grades 6-8. These events provide opportunities for youth to gather together, meet new people, engage with youth and adult leaders. Share your community with your friends. Scholarships are available for events with a cost. Right now, we are looking forward to the First Thursday at Caribou (10/6) and Dead End Hayride events (10/26). Please contact Adam Boldenow for more information.

Next Funtivity

TBD – God calls us to engage with and live into the world around with grace and love, to share God’s freedom and hope wherever we find ourselves. More information about our next Funtivity coming soon…

First Thursday

Thursday, November 3, 7:00-9:00am — Stop by Caribou Coffee in North Oaks (113 Village Center Dr, North Oaks, MN 55127) for a FREE small or medium beverage! Open to all 6-12th grade students. Show up and bring friends.

In-person Fellowship and Service Opportunities

Covid is changing so much of how we gather. During the year we will do our best to have in-person fellowship and service opportunities as we’re able, depending on what stage of the pandemic we’re in together. These events will be communicated on this webpage, on social media (linked at the top of the page), at weekly meetings and by email. Please note, these opportunities will require registration prior to the event in order to safely meet within the CDC guidelines.

Click HERE for a list of current service opportunities (link coming soon…)

Service & Learning Opportunities for Volunteer Leaders